Week 24 of the 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks challenge’s theme is “Heirloom”. I thankfully have many items to call heirlooms but I decided to write about my maternal grandma, Vera Emminger’s wedding dress along with Vera and Edward’s marriage for this post. I will focus more on Vera for this post and Edward in another one.
Vera was born in Tylersburg, Pennsylvania on January 3, 1925 to Claude Emminger and Edna Mentzer. Vera could be considered both Claude and Edna’s eighth child but also their first. How you might ask? Vera was born one year almost to the day after seven of her brothers and sisters, cousin, and grandpa died in a house fire. If you would like to read more on the house fire, click here. If those children would have lived, she would have been their eighth child, but since sadly they did not she became their first. Vera was followed by three brothers Owen, born ten months after Vera, then Keith, and last Joe. Out of the eleven children only three were girls.
Vera and her family moved quite frequently between Pennsylvania where she was born and her extended family lived and Ohio. The family finally decided on Ohio by the mid-1930s. The Emminger family lived on Bell and Boulevard streets. Vera went to but did not graduate from South High School. She dropped out in the tenth grade. Vera used to enjoy going skating at the local skating rink at Summit Beach in Akron, Ohio. The skating rink is where Vera met her future husband, Edward Leyh.
http://akron.thomconte.com/summit-beach-park/
Vera always enjoyed telling the story of how Edward and she met. The announcer told the skaters that it was ladies choice, so Vera skated over to this handsome gentleman that had caught her eye and asked him to skate. This man told her no. Edward, who standing next to the man who happen to be his friend also, told Vera, “I’ll skate with you”. Vera said, “I’m not skating with a dirty old man”. Edward was only two years older than Vera, but that day he was unshaven and smoking a cigar. Edward and Vera’s first meeting did not go so well. Edward was not easily dissuaded though and he kept after Vera. Vera finally said yes to the skate and as some say the rest is history.
My grandparents, Edward and Vera, were supposed to be married in January 1947 but Vera’s grandma, Almaretta Mentzer, fell gravely ill and they decided to postpone. Vera and Edward married on May 18, 1947 at Hope Evangelical Brethren Church in Akron, Ohio where they both continued to attend until they could no longer due to health issues. The ceremony was performed by Dr. Harry G. Deeds. Edward was employed as a Drill Press Operator and Vera was a Clerk. Once Edward and Vera were married, Vera no longer worked outside of the home.
Edward and Vera’s marriage license. (ancestry.com)
Above is a picture of them and their wedding party.
The wedding picture above was taken at a local photographers studio. The man on the far end, William “Tink” Holman, a dear friend of the family told me they had so much fun taking the pictures. They danced and laughed. The best man was John Powers, the man next to him is my Edward’s dad, Charles Leyh. The third man over is Vera’s brother, Joe. The ring bearer, Paul “Butch” Holman, is William’s brother. The matron of honor was Madeline Powers. Unfortunately, I do not know who the other two women arre in the picture.
Edward and Vera set out to build their house on the land directly behind Edward’s parents’ house. Edward and Vera had two children, Beverly Ann, my mom, born in 1951 and Paul Edward born in 1953. Vera and Edward had a happy, loving marriage. Edward worked and retired from Firestone. Vera took care of the home. Edward and Vera were very active at Hope Church. They loved to watch sports together and go to gospel singings. Edward was an avid gardener and loved to walk. He was a member of a mall walkers group that met at Rolling Acres Mall in Akron, Ohio.
Vera and Edward on my wedding, June 5, 1999.
This is one of the last pictures taken of Vera and Edward together where Edward remembered what they meant to each other.
Edward and Vera celebrated their 50th anniversary on May 18, 1997 with family and friends. Edward and Vera had such a great time. Unfortunately for their 60th in 2007, Edward was suffering from Alzheimer’s so no festivities took place. Vera died on July 17, 2008 at the age of 83. Edward died on September 13, 2008 at the age of 85. They were never apart for long in life and where not apart long in death. Vera went to be with her Savior first and six weeks later Edward joined them. Edward and Vera are buried in Greenlawn cemetery on Romig Road in Akron.
When my grandma passed away in 2008, I found her wedding dress in her cedar chest. It is still in perfect condition. Nowadays, we send ours to the dry cleaner and get them sealed in a box, not my grandma she put it in a cloth bag and placed it in her cedar chest. Unfortunately, I was unable to fit in my grandma’s wedding dress when she married but I would have been honored to wear it. It’s a shame it sits in her cedar chest still today. Unfortunately, I don’t know what ever will be done with it but I hate to think it will just be trashed some day